We got off the plane, and went to fetch our army backpacks (which he had packed with sleeping bags and a host of other things necessary for roughing it in Japan—you will soon see, this was a mistake!). Clearing customs was a cinch. Taka's letter of support was accepted but maybe unnecessary. The Japanese customs and immigration people tried their best to seem official and somewhat forbidding, but they really were pretty nice. Very quickly, we were on our way to the train station, where Taka said he would meet us.
Our first ride in a car in Nagoya at night! I wish I had photos, but at least my mind is full of images, and they don't go away. Everything was strange, and yet, unstrange to us. Somehow we felt that everything made sense here in a way that things don't make sense in our own country. This was our initial impression, but it persisted. This is not to put our country down. But simply to notice that inside, somehow, we found ourselves "at home in Japan."
When we arrived at Taka's house, it was pitch dark. There are few street lights on side streets. When we got out of the car and walked up to the tiny courtyard that Taka's U-shaped house encloses, a light came on, so we could see our way to the door. We stepped up onto the landing of a small enclosed porch, slipped off our sandals, and entered, carrying our huge, heavy backpacks. Brock went ahead of me. I could hear a woman's voice, and see a woman about my age coming forward through the dark, very narrow hallway, greeting me with お帰りなさい "Okaeri nasai!" — I didn't even have a chance to say ただいま "Tadaima!" before she welcomed me. This was Akira's girlfriend. He is a widower, and since Yoko passed away in December of 2004, this girlfriend has helped him with "women's duties" such as welcoming guests.
Taka showed us to the room where we would be staying for two weeks. It was the only upstairs room in his house. Taka had bought a couple of new futons and we were expected to sleep in them. That's the reason why bringing sleeping bags was a mistake. We never used them. After putting off our packs, and changing into fresh clothes, Brock and I were asked if we had eaten. Since the answer was predictable, Akira and his girlfriend (I wish I had remembered her name, but people in Japan try not to speak their names, and I heard it only once) had already decided to take us all to a Taiwanese restaurant for some supper that very night. Although it was, as I found out later, within walking distance, we drove there.
when you meet him, but Akira is 68 years old. When people see him and Taka working together, they think they are older brother, younger brother. Taka is 39 and looks his age, but Akira looks younger than
me. He is a very fine featured man, and very handsome. When we were talking at supper that night, and comparing ages, when I was asked, I replied 五十七歳 "goju nana sai," and Akira's girlfriend
exclaimed (in Japanese),
"me too!"
After enjoying this very delicious dinner, we headed back "home," and settled down for the night in our upper room. The windows were open, and there was a gentle, cool breeze. As we settled down to sleep, we noticed through the window a bright light—the Passover full moon!
And thus ended our first night in Japan.
おやすみ なさい Oyasumi nasai (Good night!)
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